Things empath’s do naturally: They tend to be one extreme to another....
Responding to people's needs
Grew up way faster than intended, as a child you took on jobs that are meant for adults
Being strong, take o challenges
Stoic, on guard stuffed away feelings so you can be present for others
Nurture everybody first!! Lots of reverse roles
Protecting family
Gave up a lot without needing anything back
You came to this earth being 'the mother'
nurture to fault
Obligations
Abandonment
Disappointment
Cry at a drop of a dime
Afraid to try anything
Closed off to social settings
Trying to fix all the errors that everybody else made on you for others
Please people that are not please-able
You're a lot more comfortable with giving vs receiving
15 Things You’ll Notice When You’re Around an Empath (an Empath that is not grounded we call "UNSKILLED-Emapth" )
http://personalhealthrecords.press/15-things-youll-notice-when-youre-in-the-presence-of-an-empath/
1. We are accused of being “too sensitive” or “too emotional.”
Empaths are not “too” anything. They feel things deeply- both positive and negative. They are in touch with their emotions, and yours. Though it might be harder for an empath to operate in a world designed for less-sensitive people, being an empath has several positive aspects.
2. We can’t stand being lied to.
All it takes is a simple glance in your direction to know you are lying to us. A lot of people don’t realize this, but being lied to really sucks for an empath. We feel it ooze into every aspect of the relationship…and it usually ends them.
3. Negative media images directly affect us.
It’s hard, almost impossible, for an empath to “unfeel” something. We avoid the news, and if we see something upsetting, our emotions are a mess for quite a while. Imagine feeling overwhelming sadness and suffering every single time you saw something violent or upsetting on the news. That’s what it is like for us.
4. Crowded places overwhelm us.
Empaths exist in all personality types, including introvert and extrovert, but even the outgoing ones are easily overwhelmed in crowds. The sheer force of energies and feelings you absorb is exhausting. You might like going to concerts and sporting events, but once there, you can’t wait to leave.
5. We love to heal.
Empaths want what is best for you and your wellbeing. Of course, as with all of our advice, it is only helpful if you actually implement it in your life.
6. We are sensitive to stimulants and medications.
Coffee, certain teas, energy drinks, soda- anything with caffeine makes us more anxious and agitated than the rest of the world. And, when it comes to medications, we try to avoid them as much as possible because of the myriad of side effects we experience.
7. We can only be us.
As far as honest people go, empaths are the truest friends you could ask for. We know who we are and we embrace it fully. It’s other people who seem to have an issue with our sensitive nature and honest attitude.
8. We experience what you are experiencing.
If someone we are close to is ill, depressed, or agitated, we display those same symptoms. We are so connected to what you are going through, that we go through it with you.
9. We don’t like animals, we LOVE animals.
Empaths don’t have pets, we have family members. When we see an animal in the wild, we see a soul…perfect and pure. We talk to them in various ways just as you would your best friend, and guess what…they talk back.
10. Tired, exhausted, and fatigued is normal for us.
Because we absorb so much from others, we don’t just deal with our own emotional and mental drains, we deal with everybody’s.
11. If we give advice, take it. If we take the time to listen to your dilemma, and give you heartfelt advice, just listen to it. We know what we are talking about and if you ask for our advice and ignore it, well, let’s just say it kinda annoys us to no end.
12. We are easily distracted.
Perhaps it is due to our heightened sensitivity to everything around us, but empaths are easily distracted and tend to lose focus. It’s not a bad thing, we are simply enjoying all the small things you might not notice.
13. We can’t stand narcissism.
If you are head over heels in love with your reflection, your money, and your ego- just stay away. We really can’t roll our eyes any harder.
14. Certain sounds really bother us.
But it’s not just sounds. Certain textures, fabrics, bright lights and loud noises can really get to us. The polar opposite is true as well. Soft sounds, gentle caresses, and delicate tastes are also highly noticed, but in a pleasant way.
15. We are great listeners.
It’s true. You can tell us anything and everything about your life and we will listen. We will take that journey with you and experience all the highs and lows contained within. And what’s even better, is that we hold no judgement over what you tell us. We are there to help you, not to hurt you.
SO, LET'S BE SKILLED EMPATHS!!!
Gee I notice you got so effective at collecting people's negative emotions that you made yourself a super sponge (raw to the core) Your energy started reaching out all over the place so that you're picking up the world's problems!!
No one ever gave you the tools to cope and understand your gift as an Empath, you became sensitive in gathering anyone in pain. And with that you take on pain bodies. Your DISTINGUISH switch is turned off, so you UNCONSCIOUSLY round up even strangers issues.
You became so skilled at knowing others feelings that your energy had no idea that you can close it down. You give because you want to give but the light you send out quickly attracted energy vampires (people who dump all their garbage on people like you and expect you to take allllll their junk away!!!) Ewwwwww
You don't like being intrusive, but understand that you’re picking up on emotions that may be private to others, THAT’s Being NOSY! Understand that so you can choose to let it go....Those 'junks' to sort out is their junk NOT YOURS!!! Comprehend that, and then you'll be able to see that hey my feelings aren't so bad or sad or mad. Once you really understand that knowing vs taking on someone else's info, is your gift then you’ll learn to keep positive energy that meant for you and you only and not to be given freely.
Big question is "Do you want to always give, give, give? Do you want to be depleted and constantly have to be the one who has to fill up your energy centers?” It's as if you do all the work so you could give it away to everybody else.
It's fine to be giving but it's time to give back to you. Now is the time to be able to help yourself first. Let go that feeling that you need to be accepted by people who are not going to be appreciative. That way you'll be able to keep your energy level up and SHARE energies freely only when you have abundance of energy.
Let’s start to see from this point on that you "Give the opportunity for others to learn their own lessons". Other people's failures are on their opportunity to learn.
We are now allowing others to learn by letting them do their own homework on life.
Responding to people's needs
Grew up way faster than intended, as a child you took on jobs that are meant for adults
Being strong, take o challenges
Stoic, on guard stuffed away feelings so you can be present for others
Nurture everybody first!! Lots of reverse roles
Protecting family
Gave up a lot without needing anything back
You came to this earth being 'the mother'
nurture to fault
Obligations
Abandonment
Disappointment
Cry at a drop of a dime
Afraid to try anything
Closed off to social settings
Trying to fix all the errors that everybody else made on you for others
Please people that are not please-able
You're a lot more comfortable with giving vs receiving
15 Things You’ll Notice When You’re Around an Empath (an Empath that is not grounded we call "UNSKILLED-Emapth" )
http://personalhealthrecords.press/15-things-youll-notice-when-youre-in-the-presence-of-an-empath/
1. We are accused of being “too sensitive” or “too emotional.”
Empaths are not “too” anything. They feel things deeply- both positive and negative. They are in touch with their emotions, and yours. Though it might be harder for an empath to operate in a world designed for less-sensitive people, being an empath has several positive aspects.
2. We can’t stand being lied to.
All it takes is a simple glance in your direction to know you are lying to us. A lot of people don’t realize this, but being lied to really sucks for an empath. We feel it ooze into every aspect of the relationship…and it usually ends them.
3. Negative media images directly affect us.
It’s hard, almost impossible, for an empath to “unfeel” something. We avoid the news, and if we see something upsetting, our emotions are a mess for quite a while. Imagine feeling overwhelming sadness and suffering every single time you saw something violent or upsetting on the news. That’s what it is like for us.
4. Crowded places overwhelm us.
Empaths exist in all personality types, including introvert and extrovert, but even the outgoing ones are easily overwhelmed in crowds. The sheer force of energies and feelings you absorb is exhausting. You might like going to concerts and sporting events, but once there, you can’t wait to leave.
5. We love to heal.
Empaths want what is best for you and your wellbeing. Of course, as with all of our advice, it is only helpful if you actually implement it in your life.
6. We are sensitive to stimulants and medications.
Coffee, certain teas, energy drinks, soda- anything with caffeine makes us more anxious and agitated than the rest of the world. And, when it comes to medications, we try to avoid them as much as possible because of the myriad of side effects we experience.
7. We can only be us.
As far as honest people go, empaths are the truest friends you could ask for. We know who we are and we embrace it fully. It’s other people who seem to have an issue with our sensitive nature and honest attitude.
8. We experience what you are experiencing.
If someone we are close to is ill, depressed, or agitated, we display those same symptoms. We are so connected to what you are going through, that we go through it with you.
9. We don’t like animals, we LOVE animals.
Empaths don’t have pets, we have family members. When we see an animal in the wild, we see a soul…perfect and pure. We talk to them in various ways just as you would your best friend, and guess what…they talk back.
10. Tired, exhausted, and fatigued is normal for us.
Because we absorb so much from others, we don’t just deal with our own emotional and mental drains, we deal with everybody’s.
11. If we give advice, take it. If we take the time to listen to your dilemma, and give you heartfelt advice, just listen to it. We know what we are talking about and if you ask for our advice and ignore it, well, let’s just say it kinda annoys us to no end.
12. We are easily distracted.
Perhaps it is due to our heightened sensitivity to everything around us, but empaths are easily distracted and tend to lose focus. It’s not a bad thing, we are simply enjoying all the small things you might not notice.
13. We can’t stand narcissism.
If you are head over heels in love with your reflection, your money, and your ego- just stay away. We really can’t roll our eyes any harder.
14. Certain sounds really bother us.
But it’s not just sounds. Certain textures, fabrics, bright lights and loud noises can really get to us. The polar opposite is true as well. Soft sounds, gentle caresses, and delicate tastes are also highly noticed, but in a pleasant way.
15. We are great listeners.
It’s true. You can tell us anything and everything about your life and we will listen. We will take that journey with you and experience all the highs and lows contained within. And what’s even better, is that we hold no judgement over what you tell us. We are there to help you, not to hurt you.
SO, LET'S BE SKILLED EMPATHS!!!
Gee I notice you got so effective at collecting people's negative emotions that you made yourself a super sponge (raw to the core) Your energy started reaching out all over the place so that you're picking up the world's problems!!
No one ever gave you the tools to cope and understand your gift as an Empath, you became sensitive in gathering anyone in pain. And with that you take on pain bodies. Your DISTINGUISH switch is turned off, so you UNCONSCIOUSLY round up even strangers issues.
You became so skilled at knowing others feelings that your energy had no idea that you can close it down. You give because you want to give but the light you send out quickly attracted energy vampires (people who dump all their garbage on people like you and expect you to take allllll their junk away!!!) Ewwwwww
You don't like being intrusive, but understand that you’re picking up on emotions that may be private to others, THAT’s Being NOSY! Understand that so you can choose to let it go....Those 'junks' to sort out is their junk NOT YOURS!!! Comprehend that, and then you'll be able to see that hey my feelings aren't so bad or sad or mad. Once you really understand that knowing vs taking on someone else's info, is your gift then you’ll learn to keep positive energy that meant for you and you only and not to be given freely.
Big question is "Do you want to always give, give, give? Do you want to be depleted and constantly have to be the one who has to fill up your energy centers?” It's as if you do all the work so you could give it away to everybody else.
It's fine to be giving but it's time to give back to you. Now is the time to be able to help yourself first. Let go that feeling that you need to be accepted by people who are not going to be appreciative. That way you'll be able to keep your energy level up and SHARE energies freely only when you have abundance of energy.
Let’s start to see from this point on that you "Give the opportunity for others to learn their own lessons". Other people's failures are on their opportunity to learn.
We are now allowing others to learn by letting them do their own homework on life.